The Power of Warm Introductions:
How to Get Them Right
By Belen Gomez
July 14, 2025
When it comes to getting a meeting with a busy executive, few things are more powerful than a well-timed, well-placed warm introduction.
Whether you're a sales leader, investor, or advisor, the ability to gain trusted access to senior decision-makers can make the difference between stalled deals and accelerated outcomes. Instead of reaching out cold, you're entering through a trusted relationship bridge: a mutual connection who adds legitimacy, context, and often, urgency. But warm intros aren't just about who you know. They're about how you ask, when you ask, and whether you make it easy for the other person to say yes.
At ExecAtlas, we help companies map their executive networks and identify the strongest paths to high-value individuals. But that intelligence needs to be paired with tact, clarity, and good judgment. Here's a guide to doing it right.
Do: Be Specific About Who and Why
A vague ask is the fastest way to a dead end. When requesting an introduction, be precise about who you're hoping to meet and the value you believe that meeting will create. Be crystal clear about the company, title, and the strategic reason for the outreach.
Example: "I saw you know Sarah Kim, the CRO at [company]. We're exploring partnership opportunities in their vertical, and I believe our work with similar clients could be directly relevant. Would you be open to a quick intro?"
Don't: Ask for a Favor Without Context
"Can you connect me to John Smith?" is a nonstarter. No context, no framing, no upside. If the person has to guess what you're asking for, they'll likely opt out.
Do: Equip Your Connector
Make it easy for your mutual contact to forward your message. That means including a short, well-written blurb or email draft they can easily pass along. This saves them time and helps control your narrative rather than risking a key point getting lost in translation.
Tip: Always write your message assuming the executive will read it directly.
Don't: Overuse the Same Connectors
Building a network is like managing a portfolio. Diversify. Don’t burn out your strongest allies by asking them to broker conversation after conversation.
Tip: ExecAtlas can help you identify underutilized paths and rotate connectors.
Do: Mind the Timing
Warm introductions work best when they're aligned with real-world signals. Role changes, funding rounds, and strategic initiatives all create windows of opportunity. Platforms like ExecAtlas can help you monitor for these moments.
Examples of valuable timing signals include:
- Executive appointments and departures
- Funding round announcement or impending IPO
- Major reorganization or initiative launch
Don't: Rely Solely on LinkedIn Connections
Just because someone is a second-degree connection doesn’t mean there's trust. ExecAtlas goes beyond LinkedIn to map board overlaps, deal history, alumni ties, and more. Use verified relationship paths, not assumed ones.
Do: Offer Something Valuable
Executives are flooded with requests. Stand out by offering insight, context, and relevance. Tie your message to outcomes they care about. Don’t lead with product features or start the focus on your agenda.
For example: "We're seeing a shift in how portfolio companies are mapping stakeholder influence. Happy to share some anonymized trends from our side."
Don't: Be Too Overtly Transactional
Executives can smell self-interest. Yes, they understand your motivation for reaching out, but if your message reads too much like a sales pitch right out of the gate, it absolutely will not land. Prioritize curiosity, insight, and peer-level framing.
Do: Show Gratitude
Even if the intro doesn't convert, express appreciation. The connector is risking a bit of their social capital to help you out. A simple thank-you goes a long way. If the warm intro ends up leading to a substantial deal? Consider a gift or a dinner depending on your relationship with the connector in question.
Another way to show gratitude: Be proactive about ways you might be able to help out your connector down the line. That doesn’t mean you are expected to follow up every warm introduction with one in return, but showing that you’ve put some thought into ways you might be able to help advance their goals helps further a mutually beneficial relationship rather than a one-time request.
Don't: Drop the Ball Post-Intro
This is a big one, and it hopefully goes without saying. Once the connection is made, respond quickly, confirm context, and make the meeting easy to schedule. A warm intro wasted is worse than none at all, reflecting poorly on both you and your connector.
Final Thoughts: Relationship Access Is Earned
In an era of inbox fatigue and AI-generated outreach, real access matters more than ever. Warm introductions are not shortcuts. They're a strategic motion that, when handled with care, create durable openings into high-value relationships.
ExecAtlas exists to help teams identify and act on those openings. But it's still up to humans to carry the message well. Respect the relationship. Lead with relevance. And always remember: the intro is just the start. The follow-through is what builds trust.
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Vice President of Strategic Initiatives and Communications
Belen Gomez is Vice President of Strategic Initiatives and Communications at Equilar, where she spearheads marketing, partnerships and strategic projects advancing executive intelligence and relationship-driven business development. With nearly two decades working alongside boards and senior executives, Belen plays a key role in shaping ExecAtlas solutions that help organizations engage the C-suite and accelerate deals.
Please contact Belen Gomez at bgomez@equilar.com for more information.